The Self-Love Move That Changes Everything

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Happy Wednesday, to you!

Starting over is a test of how deeply you believe in yourself.

Whether you’re walking away from a job that drained you, closing a chapter that no longer fits, or simply deciding to show up differently in your own damn life… this moment is asking something big of you.

And the truth? Self-love is the foundation that makes it possible.

It’s what keeps you steady when self-doubt whispers that you’re not enough. It’s what fuels you when the road ahead feels like a lot.

So today, stop making self-love this fluffy, feel-good thing in the background. It’s everything.

Super proud of you,

— Start Over Kitty

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QUOTE OF THE DAY

“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”

— Buddha

DEEP DIVE

Real Talk: Why Self-Love = Successful Reinvention

Ever told a friend to “be kind to themselves” when they were struggling?

Yeah, same.

And the ones who actually listened? They’re usually the ones who moved forward stronger, bolder, and more aligned.

The ones who didn’t? They stayed stuck, replaying the same patterns over and over.

Coincidence? Not even close.

Take my friend (we’ll call her Claire). After her messy divorce, she felt completely lost. But instead of spiraling, she made herself the priority. Tiny acts of self-kindness turned into confidence. That confidence led her to finally launch the business she’d been dreaming of for years.

Or another friend—she left a toxic job to chase her dream of teaching yoga full-time. It was terrifying. But the moment she stopped seeking permission from others and gave it to herself? Everything changed.

Their secret?

They stopped waiting for someone else to tell them they were worthy. They started showing up for themselves.

And you can do the same.

How to Start Showing Up For You

 Watch your inner dialogue. Your self-talk matters. If self-doubt creeps in, replace it with truth: You are capable. You are learning. You are moving forward.

 Give yourself breathing room. Starting over isn’t about rushing—it’s about realigning. Make space for rest, reflection, and clarity.

 Invest in yourself. Whether it’s therapy, a course, a journal, or the Starting Over Toolkit™, every step you take for you is a declaration: I’m worth it.

Because you are.

QUICK HITS: WHAT TO WATCH, READ, & DO THIS WEEK

📖 11 Ways To Practice Self-Love That Therapists Swear By – (Simple, science-backed, and doable) → Get the full list

🎧 The Power of Positive Self-Talk – (Not just affirmations—real mindset shifts) → Dive in

📝 The Unselfish Art of Prioritizing Yourself – (Why putting yourself first isn’t selfish, it’s necessary) → Read more

🚀 4 Powerful Mindset Shifts You Can Make ASAP – (Shift your perspective, change your life) → Learn more

🔥 13-Step Method to Foster Self-Empowerment – (Actionable steps to reclaim your confidence) → Learn the methods

📌 The Starting Over Toolkit™ – (Your guide to building deep, lasting self-love) → Grab yours here

WEEKLY CHALLENGE

This week, try these 7 micro-shifts to retrain how you treat yourself:

1️⃣ Self-awareness – Name your thoughts, don’t judge them.
2️⃣ Self-expression – Show up as you in every space you enter.
3️⃣ Self-care – Move, rest, nourish, and be mindful. (Yes, all four.)
4️⃣ Self-trust – Remind yourself: I can handle this.
5️⃣ Self-compassion – Talk to yourself like you would your best friend.
6️⃣ Self-respect – Set boundaries that protect your energy.
7️⃣ Self-acceptance – Your quirks, flaws, strengths—they’re all part of the magic.

You don’t have to master self-love overnight. Just start showing up for yourself in small, consistent ways. That’s where the real shift happens.

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Starting over can feel hard, but the right tools make it possible. The Starting Over Toolkit is your guide to take the first steps—and every purchase supports women at Harbor House creating new beginnings.

FINAL THOUGHTS

Here’s the deal:

If you don’t build self-love, motivation will always be a struggle.
If you don’t believe you’re worth it, you’ll keep waiting for permission.
If you don’t honor yourself, you’ll stay stuck in the same damn patterns.

But when you decide (right now) to treat yourself with love, care, and respect?

You move differently.
You attract better.
And the world rises to meet you.

So, what’s the first step you’re taking for yourself today?

Let me know—I’d love to hear it.

Here’s to you,

Start Over Kitty & The Permission to Start Over Team

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