Rebuilding Confidence: Make Your Moxie Your Biggest Motivator

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Emily Allen
February 12, 2025

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Dearest You,

You’ve weathered storms others couldn’t imagine.

And yet, here you are. Still standing. Still pushing forward toward the fresh start you know is meant for you.

But let’s be real: It’s not always easy. Maybe the unknown feels daunting. Maybe you’re questioning your next move. Maybe self-doubt is creeping in, whispering that you’re not ready.

Starting over is a messy mix of excitement, fear, and hope, but here’s what I know for sure:

You wouldn’t be here, reading this, if you weren’t already capable of making the leap.

So take a breath. Trust yourself. You’ve got this.

Your biggest cheerleader,

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DEEP DIVE

Confidence Isn’t Lost; It’s Reclaimed

Starting fresh can feel like standing on shaky ground. Maybe you’ve been here before, picking up the pieces, trying to rebuild. Maybe you’ve made promises to yourself that you didn’t keep. Maybe, deep down, you wonder if you really have what it takes this time.

I get it. When life knocks you down enough times, confidence doesn’t just waver, it feels like it vanishes. But here’s the truth: confidence isn’t something you lose. It’s something you reclaim.

Think about a kid learning to ride a bike. At first, they wobble, fall, and scrape their knees. They hesitate, afraid of crashing again. But the only way to ride is to keep getting back on, even when their legs are shaky. Confidence doesn’t come from never falling, it comes from knowing they’ll get back up.

The same is true for you.

Think back to a time when you knew—without a doubt—that you could handle whatever came your way. Maybe it was when you took a risk, said yes before you were ready, or stood your ground when it would’ve been easier to shrink. In that moment, you weren’t waiting for permission to feel confident. You just acted, and confidence followed.

That’s how it works. Confidence doesn’t come first. It comes from movement. From showing up. From doing the thing, even when your hands shake.

Fear will tell you to wait until you’re ready. But readiness is a lie; it’s just fear in disguise, convincing you to stay small. The only way forward is through.

So here’s the real question: Will you trust yourself enough to take the first step?

Because the confidence you’re looking for? It’s already inside you. It’s just waiting for you to remember.

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WEEKLY CHALLENGE

Leaning into your intuition isn’t as complicated as it seems. Here’s how to get started:

  • Listen to Your Body: Those gut feelings? The flutter in your chest? They’re cues—don’t ignore them.

  • Practice Mindfulness: Slow down, pay attention, and stay present. Mindfulness helps you tune in.

  • Understand Your Ego: Everyone has one. Recognizing when it shows up helps you move past its defenses.

  • Ask Questions: Uncertainty thrives on a lack of clarity. When you don’t know, ask.

  • Sleep On It: Rest resets your perspective. Sometimes, all you need is a little space.

As you move through the week, put these practices into play. Over time, trusting your intuition will feel as natural as breathing.

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FINAL THOUGHTS

Trust is earned, even with yourself.

Maybe in the past, you doubted your gut and made some not-so-great decisions. Maybe you conformed to others’ standards or silenced your instincts. Whatever the issue, it’s solvable.

For the next few weeks, tune into your inner frequency and let your intuition guide you. Mistakes are okay. What matters is rebuilding trust in yourself so you can navigate life with confidence.

You’ve got this,

Start Over Kitty & The Permission to Start Over Team

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